He’s Smitten With You

35As women we can’t help to think about the future especially when we click and connect with someone. Don’t know if it has to do with us being emotional or the chick-flick movies in which portray a love story that seems too good to be true. There are many women that are hopeless romantics and can’t help but play out their lives with someone that can be “the one”. Then again, there is nothing like meeting someone and having those butterflies in which you can only hope never go away- but lets face it we all know that it will; unless it’s true and unconditional love (I mean that’s the hopeless romantic in me… lol).

The one thing about guys is that if they like you and want something of substance with you they will make it known. Don’t be fooled, actions speak louder than words. They will do whatever it takes to make you their girlfriend once they know they have a keeper. It’s easier for them not to get overly consumed with a woman unless she has made an impression. Women tend to settle more than men, so when a man shows you interest it’s because they truly are smitten.

Here are a few signs he might be ready to throw in the towel and terminate that online dating profile and make you his girl:

He sends you daily “good morning” and “good night” texts.

o Nothing like having someone on your mind the minute you go to wake up and go to sleep. The excitement of letting you know makes it known that you are definitely on his mind and he wants you to know it.

He calls you mid day just to see how your day is going

o Think about it, nowadays it’s so much easier to hide behind a phone and text then to actually pick up the phone and see how someone is actually doing. No matter how busy his day is he just wants to hear your sweet voice to make his day. The relationship is actually moving forward in the right direction when communication is being exposed.

He talks to his friends about you and how great he thinks you are

o Calling his friends the night after your date to let them know that it went exceptionally well and that he can’t wait to see you again. True friends are the ones that want to genuinely see you happy so once the “I can’t wait for you to meet her” comes out of his mouth you know you are special and he wants you to be part of his life.

He sends you flowers

o The little things are what matter most. Nothing like receiving flowers the day after your date saying “Had a great 1st date, can’t wait to see you soon”. You were still on his mind when he made that call to the florist and if you wouldn’t have made an impression the flowers would have never made their way to you.

He makes plans to see you on weekends

o It’s easy to make plans with anyone during the week, but you know you are special when you are making plans to see each other on the weekend. You are one step closer to being exclusive when weekends are being spent with you.

He texts you throughout the day

o Nothing like getting text messages that say “hope your day is going well”, “thinking about you”, “looking forward to talking later” and texting with emoticons takes away the edge and adds the flirtiness that brings a smile to your face.

He goes out of his way to do things that you know are “out of the way”

o He doesn’t need to go out of his way for anyone and you and I both know that it’s easier not to. You mean something to him when he wants to do something for you like picking you up when it’s not on the way or something that requires a bit more effort that otherwise didn’t.

Treats you like the princess that you are

o His chivalrous ways come easy to him. He opens doors, picks up the bill and respectfully lets you lead the way when it comes to that first kiss.

He’s willing to take it slow

o If a guy is thinking long term, he won’t pressure you into having sex. He will definitely try, but he will not get offended if you don’t give in as soon as the move is made to get you in the sac. He will respect your feelings and if he truly has good intentions he will know that it will happen when the time is right. Nothing wrong with taking it slow and seeing and what bases you get to without hitting that homerun- nothing wrong with a little foreplay.

He’s talking about taking future trips

o He’s not rushing to talk about what style ring you like, but he is talking about the future and the trips you guys will take. Making future travel plans lets you know that he wants you to stick around for a while and wants to build memories with you. He genuinely sees a future with you and can’t wait to explore and build those memories together.

If you feel the same as he is making you feel, when it comes to the things listed above, you might have won the love lottery… lol. Nothing like finally having a guy that sees your worth.

Characteristics and Peculiarities

ftWhen people buy a food processor, they want it to cook the dough for baking, crush meat, squeeze juice, and many other functions. They also want it not to rust and always be as good as new. If it were possible, then it would be great if it washes!

The Ukrainian woman is like a food processor: she is versatile, yet manages to look good and not to grow old. This article provides TOP 10 advantages the Ukrainian women have.

    1. Self-care. The Ukrainian woman looks after herself. This is an integral part of her daily regimen. In addition, in Ukraine, the hairdresser service costs about $10. In Western countries, feminism and emancipation are not empty words. The European woman does not bother herself with the idea to keep fit and to be attractive. She will choose a husband what she wants because in Europe women are fewer than men. At the same time, the European man must take care of himself, be skilled, earn well, and provide the desired standard of living for his second half.


    1. Self-criticism. She is too self-critical. This is not because of the inferiority complex, but because of high standards. If she says she looks “terrible”, it means she is apologizing for not looking divinely, and all the while awaiting confirmation from her man that she is still loved and attractive. He might not even notice those extra kilograms! It is, therefore, very important if he assures her she is still very beautiful.


    1. Cordon bleu. She cooks well and a lot. At first glance, it may seem there is the food cult in the culture. The Ukrainian woman considers her sacred duty to cook breakfast, lunch, and dinner, using a high quality, fresh food. In America, for example, women prefer to save time so they cook semi – finished products. This food is not always of a good quality and certainly not good for the health.


    1. Clean habits. The Ukrainian woman cannot live in a dirty apartment. It seems that it is in her DNA always leave the house cleaned. Moreover, she almost never considers the option to hire a housemaid. There are two reasons for that: she cannot afford it financially or she cannot let another woman from outside to clean her house.


    1. Parenting on her own. She is used to bringing up children on her own. She does not force a father to participate in this process. To hire a nanny is not often the option. She cannot allow someone strange to bring up her children.


    1. Faithfulness. The Ukrainian woman is faithful by nature; she does not cheat. She is family-oriented. In a marriage, she is always there for her husband, caring, supportive, and emphatic. Home means the world to her.


    1. A good domestic psychologist. She is a good listener. The Ukrainian wife can be a psychologist at home, so her husband does not need to pay somebody else for being heard. A husband can pay back using love, attention, and romance. In recent years, many American men complain about their women because they are not as warm and sensual as women from Russia and Ukraine! Many men wonder why there is such a steep difference in the attitude. Russians and Ukrainians are really sensual, feminine, and unique in their characteristics and perception of the world.


    1. Sport-oriented. Though this idea is not new, however, sport plays an important role in the life of a modern Ukrainian woman, because she realizes her health and good look depend on it. To be healthy and well-groomed is her priority.


    1. Career-oriented. The Ukrainian woman, doing all of the above-listed things, finds time to work and earn money. She does her best at work, moves up the career ladder, gets a reputation among colleagues, and participates in corporate events.


  1. Forgiveness. She has an amazing capacity to forgive mistakes. When her husband due to the job loss sinks into a depression, she supports him morally and sometimes she gets a job to support the whole family. As can be seen from the above, the Ukrainian woman is a reliable partner for any man. The union with such a woman is able to last happily and for a long time. In the world, there are many stereotypes about Ukrainian girls. This article states about their differences, peculiarities, and uniqueness.

Decide Which One You Want To Be

rThe title might be a bit misleading because there are definitely more than 2 types of men in this world. There is the passive man, the proactive man and then those that fall in between. However, the important thing is to recognise which type of man you are and what is the difference between the two types. Read on to decide which type of man you are and want to become.

The passive man is most likely to be the introverted man. The passive man is someone like Bob. Bob is just an average guy. He works nine to five, comes home and eats dinner, watch TV and sleep at night ready to go to work the next day. He hangs out with his friends occasionally and hopes to get lucky with women sometimes.

Bob does not seek out ways to be in control and takes charge of his life. Bob is overly concerned with protecting his own self-image and is satisfied easily with his life as he does not want to change. He is afraid of change. Bob meets the occasional woman and once in a while manages to get her number, mostly by luck. He will call and ask her out on a date but invariably always gets shot down every time. Sometimes, she agrees but when the day comes for the date, she calls and says she can’t make it or she simply stands him up on the date. Bob gets disappointed and depressed each time he gets rejected. His passivity grows. He is thinking why bother trying if the results is always the same and he gives up trying eventually.

Dave, on the other hand is average too. But he is proactive about his life. He takes control of the steering wheel of his life and drives where he wants to go. He knows that life is never a bed of roses and if he wants something for himself, he has the power to make it happen himself. When it comes to dating, he actively seeks out chances with women and learns from his mistakes in interaction with them every time. When he fails in one date, he will reflect back and see what he could have done better or differently. Dave actively seeks out information and advice to continuously learn and improve on his approach and attitude with women.

Bob and Dave illustrate the 2 types of men – one who would get bitter and wallow in his self-pity every time he gets rejected by a woman and the other who tries harder and smarter and eventually gets dates he wants. Which type of man do you prefer to be?

Why You Should Consider a Transgender Relationship

frThere is a deep prejudice in the dating sphere when it comes to dating Trans-women. Some men are outright hostile to Trans-women even being in the dating market.

This post does not aim to shout at all the haters or show them the folly of their ways. In matters of heart, it is like Woody Allen said, “The heart wants what it wants.” This post, however, asks the men to take a step back and to see what they are missing out on; this post asks men to consider a different possibility, make up their own mind, and not be an automaton that has been programmed by society.

Firstly, it has to be understood that Trans-women are not gay or homosexual. This is an understandable misconception, but a folly nonetheless. Trans-women are women inside. They do not feel like a man, and due to modern medical technology can have the body of a highly desirable young woman. Gays are men or women who are attracted to the same sex. This is different from Trans-women as they consider themselves women, and their identity has nothing to do with who they are sexually attracted to.

Secondly, unlike what is shown in Hollywood movies, Trans-women are not freakish. Trans- women usually take very good care of themselves and are considered highly attractive by men who do not know their birth gender. This only goes to show the cultural prejudice that blinds them in matters of the heart. Also many Trans-women take medicine and get other help to ensure that they achieve the perfect feminine ideal, whereas your average cis woman does not even take the effort to dress well. With a Trans-woman you do not have to worry about her letting herself go or failing to care of herself.

Thirdly, due to the unique position of Trans-women, she is in a better position to understand and satisfy the needs of her man. A Trans-woman understands the sexual as well as emotional needs of a man, while that is all but impossible for a cis-gendered woman to understand.

Fourthly, sex or sexual contact with a Trans-woman is probably more enjoyable than with a cis-woman. This is due to a Trans-woman being able to understand and incorporate the needs and desires of her man in a way that most cis-women are incapable of.

The phenomenon of Trans-women is an ancient one, however it is only in modern times that Trans-women have started coming to forward and demanding their rights. Just consider it for a moment: cis male and female relationships have been here for millions of years. Do you really want to miss out on the newest and possibly the most revolutionary development in human relationships made possible only due to technological and societal development?