There is a deep prejudice in the dating sphere when it comes to dating Trans-women. Some men are outright hostile to Trans-women even being in the dating market.
This post does not aim to shout at all the haters or show them the folly of their ways. In matters of heart, it is like Woody Allen said, “The heart wants what it wants.” This post, however, asks the men to take a step back and to see what they are missing out on; this post asks men to consider a different possibility, make up their own mind, and not be an automaton that has been programmed by society.
Firstly, it has to be understood that Trans-women are not gay or homosexual. This is an understandable misconception, but a folly nonetheless. Trans-women are women inside. They do not feel like a man, and due to modern medical technology can have the body of a highly desirable young woman. Gays are men or women who are attracted to the same sex. This is different from Trans-women as they consider themselves women, and their identity has nothing to do with who they are sexually attracted to.
Secondly, unlike what is shown in Hollywood movies, Trans-women are not freakish. Trans- women usually take very good care of themselves and are considered highly attractive by men who do not know their birth gender. This only goes to show the cultural prejudice that blinds them in matters of the heart. Also many Trans-women take medicine and get other help to ensure that they achieve the perfect feminine ideal, whereas your average cis woman does not even take the effort to dress well. With a Trans-woman you do not have to worry about her letting herself go or failing to care of herself.
Thirdly, due to the unique position of Trans-women, she is in a better position to understand and satisfy the needs of her man. A Trans-woman understands the sexual as well as emotional needs of a man, while that is all but impossible for a cis-gendered woman to understand.
Fourthly, sex or sexual contact with a Trans-woman is probably more enjoyable than with a cis-woman. This is due to a Trans-woman being able to understand and incorporate the needs and desires of her man in a way that most cis-women are incapable of.
The phenomenon of Trans-women is an ancient one, however it is only in modern times that Trans-women have started coming to forward and demanding their rights. Just consider it for a moment: cis male and female relationships have been here for millions of years. Do you really want to miss out on the newest and possibly the most revolutionary development in human relationships made possible only due to technological and societal development?